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2012What My Grandma Means To Say: Helping kids understand Alzheimer’s Disease
I’ve had this gem of a story in my hands for a number of months. I’ve been hanging on to it to share this month because January is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month. I am so happy to be able to share it with you today.
What My Grandma Means to Say written by Canadian author JC Sulzenko, is an amazing story about an eleven year-old boy named Jake and his struggle with understanding the changes his grandma undergoes while battling Alzheimer’s Disease.
I have a story to tell you. It’s a story with a lot of truth in it. Once you’ve heard it, you can make up your own mind about whether it leaves you a little bit happy, hopeful or sad – or a mix of all three. That’s up to you.
This story is written for children in grades 4 to 6, but to be honest it spoke to me on such an intimate level. You can learn about my experience with Alzheimer’s Disease through a previous post on City Mom. What you’ll notice is that my story is almost identical to Jake’s.
Reading this story reminded me of my struggles with understanding what was happening to my Grandpa and my Grandma. It caused me to reflect on a time that I felt like I had lost them. A time that caused a constant battle in my heart and mind; visiting them was too painful but not visiting was just as upsetting.
I wish that What My Grandmas Means to Say had been in circulation at that time in my life. The author accurately captures the feelings that a young child experiences when dealing with a loved one experiencing Alzheimer’s and dementia.
FOR PARENTS
This story helps to create a dialogue for parents when discussing and educating their children about Alzheimer’s Disease. It assists in answering those tough questions that perhaps even adults have trouble understanding. At the end of the story there is a section included of questions and answers that covers things like the different stages of the disease, tips for visiting loved ones suffering etc.
FOR CHILDREN
As mentioned, this story is intended for children from the ages of 9 -11 but I think that it is suitable for children of all ages who are old enough to understand that their loved ones are changing. It will help to comfort the child and provided that feeling of “I’m not alone.”
BUY IT
What My Grandmas Means to Say can be purchased through General Store Publishing House online and through Chapters.ca for $12.95.
What experience do you have with Alzheimer’s Disease? How have you educated your children on the topic?











Jennifer Hunt
This sounds like such a great book, definately a must for families who have a loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s
admin
Thanks Jennifer. This book was such a great read. It brought me to tears!
Heather, Mmm... is for Mommy
I’m not in the position right now to have to explain, but this book is a great idea. Alzheimer’s has touched our family in the past and sadly, it may again.
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admin
Thank you Heather. I’m sorry to hear you have experience wit this awful disease too. It’s so, so sad.
SoberJulie
What a GREAT idea for a story, so many families deal with alzheimers and it’s confusing for the children. I’ll check it out.
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admin
It is a great book and a great idea. Sometimes the things that seem pretty straight forward to explain are actually really hard. This book really speaks to children at their level in a way that they want to hear it.
Multi-Testing Mommy
What a wonderful story – and Canadian too!
My grandmother had Alzheimer’s Disease so this is very close to my heart too.
I think I just might have to get my paws on a copy of this book!
Thank you SO much for sharing this!
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admin
You’re welcome Amanda and thanks for commenting! I’m sorry to hear you dealt with this too. It’s so devestating for the sufferer and their families.
Pam
What a cruel disease. My grandpa had it an it was so sad to see him slowly disappear. This book sounds like a great resource for families dealing with it.
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admin
That is exactly what happens Pam…slowly we lose them bit by bit. It’s so sad.
Lindsay
I would definitely like to read this as well! I am going to pass this around to my friends at the Alzheimer Society of London & Middlesex! What a great post, especially during Alzheimer Awareness month!
admin
Thanks so much Linds! THey posted it on their FB page so that was great!
Jennifer
I love it when helpful books like this are published and give tools to parents to help their kids and themselves really, through tough situations.
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admin
Me too Jenn! It’s like buying a greeting card…you know what you want to say but somehow a professional can just say it better!
Orangeheromama
sounds like a fantastic book! though thankfully i haven’t been touched by alzheimers(i don’t have much family though)
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That’s great Christy! I hope it stays that way for you.
Tarasview
we may need to get that book. thanks for sharing.
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I hope that you don’t Tara! But if you do I highly reccommend it!
Ms. Key
We haven’t had any alzheimer’s in our family, so I haven’t had much experience with it, but I know it’s a very sad and hard thing for families to go through. My heart is with any of you who do experience this in your families. Glad there are resources out there to help explain it to kids, they need support to understand these sorts of things at their level.
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Kriscia
I hope my parents or my grandparents won’t experience this but I think, we can’t help it..
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admin
I hope so too Kriscia! Not everyone get Dementia or Alzheimer’s and it some cases it’s hereditary too. Does it run in your family?
Kriscia
Fortunately, we don’t have this kind of case…
Susan
Thanks for sharing this resource. My father passed away from Alzheimer Disease so I know first hand how hard it is to watch someone you love suffer from this cruel disease.
Areta
Great post!
Andrea Bilec
Great review! I work with people with Alzheimer Disease all the time. This book is a great resource.
Kate.Z
Thanks for sharing with your ideas about
Alzheimer Disease… I do love to share it with my children..